USA + Canada. iOS only.
Dating, without the swipe treadmill
Daily caps, video-first intros, and private chats that are end-to-end encrypted.
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iOS only
Core mechanics
Designed to protect attention quality
Daily Focus
Finite batch, clearer decisions
You get a fresh daily set instead of an infinite feed, so every profile has context and every swipe has intent.
Market Health
Caps that reduce overload
Incoming and outgoing attention are paced to prevent flooding and preserve fair visibility. These rules apply to free and paid.
Privacy
Conversations stay private
Chats are built for privacy, with trust controls and moderation guardrails designed to keep the experience human.
How it feels
Playful flow with real intention
01
Set your signal
Build a complete profile, verify your photos, and share what you actually want.
02
Review your daily picks
Move through a focused batch tuned for fit, quality, and safety instead of volume spam.
03
Move into real conversations
Match, chat privately, and keep momentum toward meaningful next steps when both people are ready.
Video intros
Optional 30-second video intros
Video intros are available and rolling out across eligible profiles. Each upload goes through moderation and face-match checks before approval.
- Optional, not required
- Moderation and safety checks before visibility
- Built for quick signal, not performative content
Rollout status
Available with progressive rollout
Video intros are live and expanding across eligible profiles. We keep rollout measured to protect moderation quality and playback reliability.
moderation
Visual + audio checks
profile trust
Face-match verification
Trust layer
Trust that stays out of your way
- Photo verification before discovery access
- Report and block controls in every key flow
- Spam-resistant interaction design
- No pay-to-win boosts or hidden queue tricks
- Safety and fairness protections are never purchasable
What we optimize
Relationship outcomes over swipe volume
Destyn is built to improve match-to-reply quality and reduce overload, not to maximize mindless session time.
Open algorithm
Open algorithm, clear incentives
Destyn publishes discovery principles publicly so people can verify that ranking and pacing are aligned with relationship outcomes.
- • No black-box growth hacks
- • No protected-class pricing rules
- • No bypass for fairness caps
discovery.ts
export const getDiscoveryFeed = query({ // finite daily picks by tier picksPerDay: tier === "paid" ? 35 : 15, // market-health caps are global applyIncomingCaps: true, // no pay-to-win boosts usePaidBoosts: false,});Launch access
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We are preparing launch access for iOS users in the United States and Canada.
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